Interview No No's

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  You are all dressed and ready to go for your interview. You know all the basics and think it will be a no brainer.  However, do you really know everything that could affect your interview?  Here’s a little refresher course and maybe some things you may not have thought of.

 

Arriving too early:  You know about not arriving to your interview late, that’s the kiss of death for an interview, but how about when you arrive too early?  Getting there a half of an hour early can be to your advantage.  You’ll have arrived at the building in plenty of time and you can do a final once over in the rest room.  You can also give yourself a pep talk if you need one.  Actually going to where the interview is being held a half hour early, however, is a bad idea.  It can make you look overly anxious, show a lack of confidence and uncertainly.  It can also cause pressure on the person who is going to interview you who now knows there is someone tapping their feet in the waiting room.

 

Asking too many questions:  You do need to ask questions.  Not asking any questions can make you look uninterested in the job being offered.  Firing one question after the other can make the interviewer uncomfortable and defensive.  There has to be a balance.  You need to ask enough questions to let the interviewer know you want the job but not that they feel as if they are being interrogated.

 

Having your perfume or after shave enter the room before you do:  Yes, you want to smell good.  If people’s eyes are watering or they’re fanning the air with a newspaper, maybe you should check to see how heavy you doused yourself.  You should never have your perfume or after shave announce your entrance.  If the interviewer is worrying about where their next breath of fresh air is coming from, they aren’t going to be concentrating on the answers to your questions.  Go easy on the scents.

 

Anticipating the next question:  Listen, listen, listen, did I mention to listen? Don’t try to anticipate what the next question is going to be.  You need to listen to what is being asked at the moment and focus on that.  Skipping ahead can cause you to become inattentive and miss the question that may be the one that gets you the job.

 

Being tired and unfocused:  Even if you have been up all night with a sick child or a teething baby, you need to look bright eyed and focused.  Your interviewer doesn’t care why you’re tired.  In all actuality, they shouldn’t even be able to tell that you are tired.  If you are unfocused, you won’t get the job.  Psych yourself up before you walk into the interview room.

 

The limp fish handshake:  A limp handshake will not impress your interviewer.  Your handshake needs to be firm but not to the point of bruising bones.  If you aren’t sure of how your handshake rates, have a friend or two shake your hand and tell you how it scores.

 

I hope these hints will help in your next interview.  If you have any helpful hints for our readers, please leave a comment.

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  • Melissa Kennedy
    Melissa Kennedy
    Thanks for stopping by and leaving a comment. Elizabeth - It sounds like your interview was really jinxed. Congrats on getting the job though, even under pressure!
  • Nureen M
    Nureen M
    It would be enormously helpful if you could/would address the following issues.How to handle the fishing for your age; like what years did you attend college?Are you collecting  Social Security?What were    your earningsin last job. Also what is yoursalary history?
  •  Elizabeth H  
    Elizabeth H  
    I totally agree about arriving early.  Even to sit in you car to prepare ahead.  I was never so glad as the time-no one could have imagined. As I exited the car I stepped in a huge piece of somones bubble gum. What a mess. then a few yards toward my goal to enter the building a big crow flew over and " pooped  " on my head!  I thought the interview was cursed, However, I was sure glad I had the extra 20 minutes left to clean up. What do you think happened?  I got the job!One never knows how that extra  15-20 minutes may be spent. I finally just had to laugh but I went in with a smile on my face.
  • Sylvia K
    Sylvia K
    THANKS A LOT,HELPFUL INDEED
  • Linda Ruzicka
    Linda Ruzicka
    Ray, I think 15 minutes is not too soon if paperwork is involved. Thanks for your comment!
  • Deborah J
    Deborah J
    Thanks for the tips.
  • Ray I
    Ray I
    I usually arrive about 15 minutes before my scheduled time.  The only time I do arrive early is I do need to fill in paperwork that is required.  
  • Linda Ruzicka
    Linda Ruzicka
    Martha, I hope they proved useful to you.
  • Mike W
    Mike W
    Good information, helpful
  • Martha m
    Martha m
    Thanks for the tips!
  • Linda Ruzicka
    Linda Ruzicka
    Thank you Jenny, I appreciate you reading them!!
  • Jenny S
    Jenny S
    I am finding all of your articles very informative and helpful.
  • Linda Ruzicka
    Linda Ruzicka
    Teresa and Ellen, thank you for your input.
  • Linda Ruzicka
    Linda Ruzicka
    Kathleen, I agree, gum chewing is a definite no-no!!
  • Linda Ruzicka
    Linda Ruzicka
    Aaron, yes, being over confident could be a turn off for sure! Thank you for bringing that up.
  • Linda Ruzicka
    Linda Ruzicka
    Theresa, I actually did an article on hiring an older person and the benefits of doing so. The experience is there and also the work ethic. Thanks for your input.
  • Linda Ruzicka
    Linda Ruzicka
    Olivia, yes it is bad form and bad taste to bash a former worker, boss or place of employment. Good tip to include! Thanks!
  • Linda Ruzicka
    Linda Ruzicka
    Sunny, it was great to hear from someone who is on the other side of the desk! You have excellent points and the questions you suggest are valid ones that I'm sure will be used if someone reads your comment! Thanks so much for your input.
  • Linda Ruzicka
    Linda Ruzicka
    Sandra, I would think with a phone interview alot of it would be common sense. Make sure the room you're taking the call from is quiet without distractions. Speak distinctly and clearly. Make sure you hear all the question before you answer. Don't breathe into the phone and smile!..even though the other person can't see you a smile can be heard in your voice. I hope that helps.
  • Linda Ruzicka
    Linda Ruzicka
    Yasimine, yes, a hard handshake can hurt!
  • Linda Ruzicka
    Linda Ruzicka
    Bob, Luther, Michael, Kimberely, Dwayne, Gerald and Lillian,..I'm glad these tips were helpful. Thank you for your input!
  • Linda Ruzicka
    Linda Ruzicka
    Pam, great pointers on the dressing aspects! Thanks!
  • Linda Ruzicka
    Linda Ruzicka
    Renea, Stephanie, and Allison, it seems as if the arriving too early has been a pointer that a lot a people never really gave much thought to! Thank you for your comments.
  • Linda Ruzicka
    Linda Ruzicka
    sherry, thank you for your input
  • Linda Ruzicka
    Linda Ruzicka
    James, excellent point about the eye contact!!

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