If You Want to Keep Your Job, Never Say These 10 Things to a CoWorker

When you pack several employees into one office with tight deadlines to meet and tricky challenges to overcome, stress can mount quickly. Workers often need downtime to relieve tension, and this typically leads to chatting among co-workers. While talking to your co-workers about upcoming vacation plans or the impending snowstorm is completely acceptable, there are other topics you should avoid. Consider this list of 10 things to never say to a co-worker.

1. "I Got Into a Fight With My Wife Last Night"

Keep your personal life personal. Your co-workers have their own personal problems and life stressors, so they don't need your relationship woes adding more strain.

2. "How Much Do You Make?"

Don't expect your co-workers to divulge their salaries to you, and consider you may not like the answer if you find out a colleague makes a great deal more than you do.

3. "Who Are You Voting For?"

It's best to avoid any political discussions in the workplace. Whether you're discussing your disdain for a particular candidate or your strong support for a political cause, the topic could potentially lead to an argument.

4. "I'm Having Problems With My Back"

Discuss your medical issues as necessary with your supervisor, but don't share too much information with your co-workers. Colleagues may look at you differently or question your ability to perform your job duties.

5. "What Church Do You Attend?"

Avoid getting into conversations about religion or faith with your co-workers. Don't question a colleague's religious affiliation, and resist any urges to convert employees to your faith.

6. "She's So Lazy"

Don't allow yourself to become an office gossip. Even if your co-workers are badmouthing other employees, resist the urge to participate in the unkind conversation.

7. "Let Me Tell You About This Girl I Met Last Night"

Your sex life should never be a topic of conversation in the workplace. This could lead to sexual harassment complaints if comments are overheard by someone who is offended by the discussion.

8. "I'm Applying for the Manager Position"

Don't tell your co-workers about your plans to vie for a promotion. Instead, keep discussions about your career goals between you and your boss.

9. "I Drank Too Much Last Night"

It's extremely unprofessional to talk about your alcohol-fueled evening or unfortunate hangover in the office. Party if you wish, but keep the stories to yourself to avoid losing the respect of your co-workers.

10. "Are You Pregnant?"

Never ask your co-worker about her pregnancy status or plans to have children. This can be a sensitive topic, so allow colleagues to share personal information as they see fit.

You spend a huge percentage of your week at the office. It's understandable that you might feel comfortable sharing certain information with your co-workers, but tread lightly if you want to keep your job. Never say these 10 things to a colleague to keep yourself out of hot water.

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